Orgasm is an auto ecstatic phenomenon:

  • through the interplay between polarities
  • the outer feminine triggers the inner masculine
  • given the right environment orgasm is possible
  • partners may trigger it but the ecstacy and the joy is personal

3 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Barry
    Nov 06, 2010 @ 04:55:53

    The major obstacles to achieveing orgasm, in my experience are:

    •lack of knowledge of physiology – where to touch
    •lack of loving touch – how to touch
    •social and religious conditioning – believing that sex is ‘sin’ and ‘bad’
    •pressure and pace of life – rushing the connection
    •inappropriate timing – when one or both are exhausted or distracted
    •need to lower the defences – to be vulnerable
    •need to open personal space – very scary for the feminine
    •fear of unwanted pregnancy
    •lack of understanding of the opportunity to connect spiritually and take the experience to a different level altogether


    • Cathwrynn
      Jan 12, 2011 @ 11:44:35

      Yes, Barry… I totally agree with your points. Difficulty in achieving orgasm is still one of the major themes of women’s sexual difficulties. It is still extremely common.


      • Barry
        Jan 12, 2011 @ 12:05:19

        During the past 5 years of dealing with sexual dysfunction and body issues, I have been able to link the potential for dysfunction and inability to experience orgasm to particular birth date combinations. This paves the way for opening the dialogue during discussions and consultations more easily.

        The process of identifying the negative belief systems and emotional blockages has also become quicker, more accurate and is pleasantly devoid of trauma. Things are definitely looking up !

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